October 18, 2020
Is our fantasy projection about the future an illusion?
Sometimes it is not easy to relax and focus on ourselves from the other side of consciousness, in a space where, if we allow ourselves, we can come across the contents that can guide and lead us spontaneously and easily towards the goal. On the other hand, the process of reaching the goal is sometimes not so simple and easy. However, it is most likely that the entire process, as well as reaching the goal itself, depends solely on ourselves. Each of us starts from our own internal stagnation point and the main script pattern currently standing as the major hindering obstacle to getting right there where we can breathe liberated and relaxed.
If we allow our inner Little Professor (the Adult ego state in the ego state of the Child) to seduce us with their magical creative energy, then we can increase our chances of feeling and finding solutions to the pattern of our inner process. It is not easy to leave there all the worries about the feasibility or acceptability of the scenario itself, which is possible and achievable for our inner child. Why do we find it difficult to believe that our inner creations bring miracles into our life, that using our imagination we can create the change that perfectly suits us and feel and rely on our power of creation?
The inertia of living in the clutches of our script i.e., unconscious life scenario, is the core difficulty that distracts us from the desired outcome. Then there are the internal processes that prevent us from achieving the change we need. These processes occur imperceptibly, but they seem so painful and real to us that we rush into dysfunctional time structuring, live under the influence of drivers and injunctions, enter psychological Games unconsciously often persecuting both ourselves and others, lose self-confidence, experience anxiety and fears of success and failure, examine ourselves and procrastinate.
However, if we allow ourselves to observe ourselves and our internal processes, if we just pause for a moment and simply breathe through all that torrent of the life script inertia, I believe that we will be in with a chance to turn our weakness and lack of self-confidence, as well as self-doubt to our advantage. By giving ourselves the opportunity to feel the Free Child's zeal and to connect with their playful energy we can notice that it is not hard for them to live at their imagined future moment of their most potent dominant future timeline, feeling fulfilled, satisfied, and free from their past script patterns.
What are the contents that our Free Child can bring us through contact with the fantasy projection about the future? We can definitely understand that reducing self-imposed demands works wonders. We realize how much strength and motivation can stem from self-care and the activation of the Nurturing Parent inside us and how important it is to love ourselves just for who we are, to allow ourselves to work in our own ways, to believe in ourselves and a positive outcome, and most of all to allow ourselves to make new decisions and to feel the power of transcending the inertia of living a life scenario.
When we stick to our favorite option inspired by the Free Child's fantasy from the projection of our future, an important step is to ensure the energy support of the ego state of the Adult, who has the power to assess the feasibility and potency of the desired change, while, at the same time, the ego state of the Parent can assess the acceptability of personal risks along the path to the goal. Once all the inner sides are in harmony with each other, the inner green light turns on, which unstoppably opens the way for us to devote ourselves exactly to that option/desired scenario that leads us to the goal itself.
Guided by the commitment of the Free Child, in addition to the permissions and protection of our Parent and Adult ego states, we become ready to soar to all those fantastic heights that are ours and within reach, only by breathing through the process and restoring the significance of the change we want, providing ourselves with self-support and encouragement and remaining open to real resources and concrete plans that directly help us to happily and contentedly embrace our imaginary, but actually so achievable, fantasies about our future.
